Men Over 50 y.o. And Russian Women Dating
When a man over 50 years old decides to search for a wife in CIS countries, he might face many disappointments and finally will think it is not possible to find someone because most of women seem to be interested in men under 55 years of age. It is not so. And if you give it some efforts, time, patience, you will find the right match for you.
If you have ever read books or articles on online dating, many of them often speak about “realistic expectations”. What does it mean having realistic expectations when it comes to Russian women dating?
If you are looking for a life time partner, and not just a “trophy” to bring back home, one of the most important issues would be the age of the woman you are looking for. It is very flattering when a 20-25 years old girl answers your letters, but speaking the truth, you should realize that chances for such a relationship being long-term are minimal. Again, if you are looking for a life time partner, a woman who can share your interests and life experience, you should consider a woman with 15-20 years difference maximum.
Another thing to consider is your woman’s expectations and her life style preferences. If your woman is a city person, who is used to the rich social life (concerts, museums, exhibitions, night clubs, etc), most likely she will not feel comfortable living a small town, in the country or on a farm. That is why it is very important to learn about each other’s plans, likes and dislikes, priorities and interests.
Russian women value stability and financial security, just like we all do. But it does not mean that you can buy a Russian wife with your big house, fancy car, etc. When talking to a Russian lady, you should mention not only material things you can offer, but what is really important, the features of your personality and character that make you really attractive as a potential husband. Show her you can be romantic and considerate, you can respect her, you know what it takes to build a happy and strong family, you are able to appreciate what a woman can offer.
You do not need to be a professional writer to get a Russian woman’s attention. Just be yourself. Being honest, open minded, positive and sincere is the perfect base for any kind of relationship.